Post by malkieh on Jun 14, 2014 23:38:13 GMT -5
B"H I have yet to be fired from my job.
I had this feeling that I should not sign a contract when I got my job and I took per diem, B"H.
I have been working since Oct' 2013, and had to take off soo much time it's not even funny! My husband's mother and father passed within three months of each other and we had to go to both funerals and shiva, of course!
Then there was a family emergency because my husband is the accountant we had to run and take care of it.
Now we have had so many negative things, and our 6th anniversary is coming up (marriage). My husband and my children want time with me. Now he says to me, Ok we are done with the negative and we are going on the cruise in two weeks and we NEED THIS!
He is right we need this, but I am so afraid they will fire me! I took two weeks off for each funeral and shiva, and then we ended up needing 3 weeks off for the family emergency! I feel like if I turn around and say now I need a week and a half off that my job will say that's enough your fired. Granted they have been pushing and pushing me and I am not handling the pushing. This past friday I ended u working from 430 am - 4 pm, without lunch or break! I was so exhausted for shabbos it was crazy!
Additionally another nurse just took paternity leave for 7 weeks!! So they are counting on me, I am so freaking out! But my husband keeps saying your per diem, they cannot fire you if your busy your busy!.
I desperately need a vacation, even though I have been gone many times, most of them were stressful and not relaxing! Also IY"H by then my BSN will be done, so we will be celebrating our anniversary and my BSN
I had this feeling that I should not sign a contract when I got my job and I took per diem, B"H.
I have been working since Oct' 2013, and had to take off soo much time it's not even funny! My husband's mother and father passed within three months of each other and we had to go to both funerals and shiva, of course!
Then there was a family emergency because my husband is the accountant we had to run and take care of it.
Now we have had so many negative things, and our 6th anniversary is coming up (marriage). My husband and my children want time with me. Now he says to me, Ok we are done with the negative and we are going on the cruise in two weeks and we NEED THIS!
He is right we need this, but I am so afraid they will fire me! I took two weeks off for each funeral and shiva, and then we ended up needing 3 weeks off for the family emergency! I feel like if I turn around and say now I need a week and a half off that my job will say that's enough your fired. Granted they have been pushing and pushing me and I am not handling the pushing. This past friday I ended u working from 430 am - 4 pm, without lunch or break! I was so exhausted for shabbos it was crazy!
Additionally another nurse just took paternity leave for 7 weeks!! So they are counting on me, I am so freaking out! But my husband keeps saying your per diem, they cannot fire you if your busy your busy!.
I desperately need a vacation, even though I have been gone many times, most of them were stressful and not relaxing! Also IY"H by then my BSN will be done, so we will be celebrating our anniversary and my BSN